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Color of the Year: Living Coral (and Flowers)

Each year, the Pantone Institute chooses a color that is influencing trends and cultural concepts like fashion, the natural world (including undersea), and in the case of this year’s selection, social media. Each year, we await the announcement with the hope that, as floral designers, we can enjoy this trend color through the artistry of flowers. The 2019 selection of “Living Coral” is a color that takes so many natural forms in the world of flowers. It’s a warm and sunny color, and whether you call it coral, orange or peach, it’s a color that has been growing in popularity for both weddings and every day floral design.

If you are planning a wedding, a color like Living Coral can be included in many palettes and provide whimsy, warmth and delight in your designs. In fact, the description provided on the Pantone web-site expresses exactly the kind of mood and emotion that many wedding couples are looking for in 2019. Living Coral “welcomes and encourages lighthearted activity. Symbolizing our innate need for optimism and joyful pursuits, Pantone 16-1546 Living Coral embodies our desire for playful expression.” Sounds like a wedding to me. Now the question is what flowers can you use to achieve this hue or a more expansive range of color inspired by Living Coral.

Here are a few recent weddings that incorporated the warmth of this fantastic orange/coral/peach tone. We’ve named the flowers in the color family, but I am especially excited about the total palette selected by each couple. The softer Spring wedding shown above on the left is a combination of pale pink, blush, white and sage-green. The Fall wedding (right) includes dramatic pops of “Marsala” (Pantone’s Color of the Year in 2015), perhaps more commonly known as burgundy. We limited the use of the darker tones in this particular design so as not to overwhelm the neutral tones. You can also use “Living Coral” as the softest color in a palette with even more vibrant colors.

The Summer wedding below on the left included the vibrant Mini-green Hydrangea, or Viburnum, with Raspberry Spray Rose and Gomphrena. The Fall wedding on the right is a much softer palette that includes a lot of color anchored by the peach Zinnia and even subtler, Cafe Au Lait Dahlia.

Flowers in “Living Coral” aren’t limited to weddings

Roses and Parrot Tulips hint at “Living Coral” in this J. Morris Flowers every day floral design for Spring.

Roses and Parrot Tulips hint at “Living Coral” in this J. Morris Flowers every day floral design for Spring.

You can get a close match to Living Coral with quite a few other flowers. Roses, Spray Roses, Dahlias, Carnations, Tulips and Calla Lilly all come in varieties similar in tone to the Pantone Selection. There are a host of Tropicals in even more vibrant hues like Birds of Paradise and Crocosmia.

Flowers allow you to enjoy a popular trend color in your home without overcommitting to the look. Use trendy flowers in cool vases instead of purchasing pillows and throws. If you’re like me, you like seasonal elements in home decor and Living Color will look pretty with Spring pastels, as well as the colors of Summer and Fall. Designing for your own party or event? Use Living Color to warm up the atmosphere and delight your guests.

Want help designing flowers for your wedding or party? We’re happy to help. Contact us for more information or call to speak to one of our designers at 703-779-3530.

Thanks to the following photographers for the amazing images that captured these colors (in order that they appear): Spring Wedding, Stephanie Messick; Fall wedding, Susie and Becky Photography; Vibrant wedding, Leslie Maron Photography: Muted Fall wedding, Purple Fern Photography.

A Year in Review: Boutonnieres

Photography by Chi Chi Ari at the Salamander Resort and Spa in Middleburg, Virginia. Artistry using Anemone and gorgeous greens.

Photography by Chi Chi Ari at the Salamander Resort and Spa in Middleburg, Virginia. Artistry using Anemone and gorgeous greens.

Photography by Izzy Hudgens. Burgundy Ranunculus with Astilbe.

Photography by Izzy Hudgens. Burgundy Ranunculus with Astilbe.

A boutonniere is just a little piece of art and an easy way for you, the groom, to dress up your ensemble. Designing your boutonniere with a professional florist also gives you the opportunity to learn a little bit about flowers and to portray yourself as a bit of a renaissance man. Here’s what I mean. Your dad’s Aunt asks you about the unique bloom you’re wearing and you reply,” I am wearing a Dutch Blue Anemone, I picked it myself.” Cool, right? In the meantime, you don’t have to profess to like flowers, you don’t even need to know anything about them. For your part, you just have to be able to say, “I like it” or “I don’t.”

A boutonniere is really a way for you, the groom or pair of grooms, to express yourself, even if just a little. Your goal is to add a bit of flash to your lapel for this very special day. Here’s a look at some boutonnieres that we made in 2018 and some things to consider as you create your design.

Using the flowers of the day

Pamela Lepold Photography, pink, white and a hint of green.

Pamela Lepold Photography, pink, white and a hint of green.

We will help you to choose blooms for your boutonniere from the flowers that you and your intended have chosen to use throughout your wedding décor. You may like the idea of using a signature flower for your boutonniere from the bridal bouquet recipe that can become a unifying element for your ensembles. You don’t have to use a bloom from the bouquet, but it’s a good idea to use a flower from one of the recipes that we will create for your overall wedding. Flowers are sold in bunches and your budget will go further if we aren’t ordering a special stem for your boutonniere.

A longer thinner boutonniere with Calla Lily and Blue Delphinium. Fisher Photography.

A longer thinner boutonniere with Calla Lily and Blue Delphinium. Fisher Photography.

Because we will be a whole cast of blooms to accomplish different designs for the wedding, you can choose to make the boutonnieres for the groomsmen different than your own. You could pick a different color in the same floral variety or use an entirely different flower in the same shade (a similar strategy can be used for the bridesmaid bouquets).

If you don’t have want to select a specific flower, our designers will use their combined decades of wedding floral design experience to create something really special for your lapel from the list of flowers you and your partner have selected.

Should you provide boutonnieres for the men in your family?

Candice Adele Photography, Succulent, Fern and Eucalyptus.

Candice Adele Photography, Succulent, Fern and Eucalyptus.

Many wedding couples ask me if it necessary to provide a flower for the male members in their family. The answer would have been a hard yes in the last century, but now, it’s really up to you. A flower is a lovely way to honor the men and women that made this day possible. But, weddings are a little less formal these days. Some guests familiar with the traditions of the last century will expect to see corsages and boutonnieres. They may also expect to do the electric slide and the chicken and see some other rituals that modern couples have chosen to eliminate. Did you know that each guest used to pay a dollar to dance with the bride so that the newlyweds had a little cash for their honeymoon? And, you haven’t lived till you’ve spent a half hour on the end of a receiving line.

Speaking of receiving lines, if you’re having one, let’s add a second boutonniere for the groom or plan to have him hang his jacket on a chair. Flowers are hardy, but one hundred and fifty hugs can spell disaster for a bloom.

Boutonnieres are inexpensive

Candice Adele Photography, Thistle and Privet with Eucalyptus and Smokebush.

Candice Adele Photography, Thistle and Privet with Eucalyptus and Smokebush.

As wedding floral budgets go, boutonnieres average around $20 to $25. They include several stems with one or two blooms, a couple of pieces of green, ribbon and some hidden floral materials. They are, however, labor intensive and require skill. Our team works hard to make each one look like little piece of art.

New trend: Greenery-only boutonniere

I used several pictures of boutonnieres in this blog that do not include flowers. Weddings made entirely from greens are trendy but still fairly rare. Most brides and grooms have at least a few flowers in their personals (feel free to go all out on the greenery). As a groom, you can definitely choose to use only greenery. We can use Succulent, Thistle, Dusty Miller, Fern, Rosemary or even Sage to create something very unique. This is a great look and still works well with a floral bouquet.

The conversation about your boutonniere begins in the creative consultation that we will have in our studio. You’re gonna look great, just you wait.

A Bride's Perspective: Planning a second wedding with flowers

By Heather Lipp, J. Morris Flowers, all Photography by Lisa at Lovesome Photography.

Kerry and Tim Barnhart planned their Poplar Springs wedding together. A second marriage for both, they took great care with every detail of the day -- demonstrating the thoughtful commitment they were making to each other and to the new family created by their union. This was a wedding where two large families would become an even bigger “one.”

The focal pieces Kerry and Tim designed created a classically romantic setting for their ceremony, moved inside due to an unexpected chill. The white tent and field stone patio offered a lovely contrast of textures for the arch, urn arrangements and rose petals sweeping the sides of the aisle. As the day continued, each moment of careful planning unfolded into a lovely weekend getaway for family and a perfect beginning for this couple.

The Venue

Poplar Springs Inn, Warrenton, Virginia, Lovesome Photography

As this was a second wedding, Kerry and Tim were hoping the event would foster new bonds among two families. A getaway to Poplar Springs in Warrenton, Virginia felt like the perfect way to create that community. Kerry explains, “We went out to Poplar Springs and really liked it, it felt like we had really gotten away from everything but we were really so close to home. We rented the whole space for the weekend. It was part family retreat with our kids and a weekend away with friends that we hadn’t seen for a while. We had three full days together.”

The Barnhart’s mentioned that they picked Poplar Springs because they have an outdoor and indoor ceremony space, each equally beautiful. This would become an important planning decision as May turned cool. “The patio is tented and when you come down the stairs, there is this long expanse of stone, it’s beautiful. It turned out great, I was disappointed that it wasn’t sunny and beautiful but Poplar Springs did a great job transforming the space with the white chairs and draping.”

“Poplar Springs has been recently renovated,” according to Kerry, “and they do all the catering themselves including their own cakes.” The food was organized by stations with a special allergy-friendly cake for Kerry and Tim. 

The new family, Photography by Lovesome Photography.

The family

Kerry has four children; Tim has three. They wanted all of the kids to have a meaningful role in the wedding without creating a big wedding party. Kerry’s daughter stood up for her as maid of honor and her son walked her down the aisle. One of Tim’s sons stood up for him, two of the kids read during the ceremony and the others gave toasts. 

Kerry shared her feelings about why this weekend event was so important to the couple. “We had guests who were even surprised that we were doing the whole wedding thing. But, I wanted to mark this day for everyone. Here we are, combining two families, and we wanted to highlight that. The weekend wedding was great for us, our families didn’t know each other well and it gets much more complicated with extended family. We got to hang out together for a weekend and get to know each other in a way that we had never experienced before."

The Planning Process

Wisps of trailing Jasmine in this bouquet with Cafe au Lait Dahlia and O'Hara Garden Roses. Photography by Lovesome Photography.

Kerry admitted that as a bride getting married a second time, she had a lot of questions about how to plan a wedding that honored their families and the beautiful commitment they were making to each other. According to Kerry, “there is so much emphasis on a young bride in her twenties or thirties with a ton of friends that it’s hard to know what the traditions are for a second wedding.  What do people do? What’s appropriate? Is it appropriate to wear a veil? Really, we decided to do what we liked, to let it feel like a wedding. That was very important to us. We wanted everybody to feel involved and figured out a way to do that. There are not a lot of models out there for second weddings.”

As for the flowers, Kerry chose colors that her eye was drawn to in photographs, narrowing her choices down to dustier shades. The pink her daughter wore worked for Kerry because it was a muted shade and it was a great color on Jenna. She eventually chose dusty pink, peach, ivory and a light-blue green that she discovered in Dusty Miller (greenery variety).

“We started (the color selection) with the flowers because they have so much natural color. I started to collect pictures of arrangements and individual flowers and found myself holding on to an image because of maybe one or two flowers that I liked.” An effective wedding flower consultation begins by looking at flowers in different arrangements and selecting varieties that have appeal. Kerry agrees, “For me, this was very different from the last time I selected flowers for a wedding. That was important, I think.”

J. Morris Flowers designer, Katie Black, did a mood board for Tim and Kerry that became an important tool for Kerry. She recalls, “I didn’t pick the flowers and say you have to include them. I think it is really important to let the artist be the artist. I said, I like these flowers and I like this feel and left it up to Katie, who totally got it.”

The bouquet and ceremony

A face-to-face consultation is the perfect time to iron out important style preferences. Kerry did not want a tight arrangement of flowers in her bouquet, favoring a looser feel. Katie let only the Jasmine in the bouquet drape as Kerry wanted a cascading style that still looked “tidy.”

Arch flowers include Cafe Au Lait Dahlia, Quicksand Roses, White Lilac and Hydrangea, Dusty Miller, Silver Dollar Eucalyptus and Jasmine.

Kerry, Tim and Katie spent a lot of time focusing on the design details for the arch and the rest of the ceremony; including the placement of the petals. The urns and arch were filled with her theme flowers: Café au Lait Dahlia, Quicksand Roses, White Hydrangea, Dusty Miller, Silver Dollar Eucaplytus and Jamine Vine. The Rose petals carefully spread on the sides of the aisle created a continuity between the larger ceremony focal points.  

According to Kerry, Tim really wanted the arch to be rounded.  “A rounded arch spoke to him and it was perfect, we wanted to do it right and make it a real centerpiece.” Kerry also ordered champagne colored shawls from Etsy and put them in a box for her guests to wear. Call it women’s intuition, but they were necessary and a big hit with many women in attendance.

The reception

“I wanted to create an English Garden or Country Inn feel with the Cabbage (Garden) Roses and Dahlia’s,” Kerry explains. With the beautiful stone walls in the reception space, we had to make sure we weren’t trying to compete too much.”

Similar to the bridal bouquets, the low pedestal centerpieces are full and lush with loose greenery breaking the line of the container and adding a bit of a cascade. Kerry loved how the centerpieces added muted color to the tables. One of her “go-to” greens was Dusty Miller, a sage-green to nearly-blue leaf that adds unique texture and color to centerpieces and bouquets. The tablescapes were complete with tight groupings of metallic votives, “I wanted to put votives in groups of two around the centerpieces, Katie suggested we do it in threes and I was really happy with how that looked.”

The chargers and linens she selected added even more elegance to the affair. “We tried to do something really different with the chargers. The rental company showed us the chargers and tablecloths and explained that couples rarely pick them but that they look really cool and really different.” She offers this advice, “You might have a picture in your head but it’s important to trust the experts in order to get that artistic look, you can’t cut the artist out.”

The mantle at Poplar Springs was a great spot for some accent décor. “We did votives, candles and a long centerpiece, it doesn’t drive up the costs a lot when you use candles.”

Kerry really wanted to know whether or not there are rules for a second wedding, and in the end, she made her own. She created beauty and elegance and, in her words, “marked” the occasion for family and friends. She offered one more piece of advice that assuredly comes from experience. “Right before you walk down the aisle remind yourself that the planning is over. Take a deep breath, be in the moment and truly experience the beauty, joy and love that is present.”

Kerry and Tim really appreciated the help of their wedding coordinator, Lynn Liannizzi, from the Finer Points.